Proposed in his book Miguel Ruiz: there is no reason to suffer. The only reason why you suffer is because you so demand. Happiness is a choice, as also is suffering. In the vast majority of my articles I have proposed this form of philosophy of life, because I fully agree with her. What we live is a choice unconsciously or consciously, we always chose, is therefore important to realise, be aware of what you are experiencing, oddly enough, is a decision. The suffering and love are viewed as a single formula for which we have been educated, therefore we require return to our inside and see what we are doing with each and every one of our sufferings, to overcome them, we have to deal with our own decisions. So in the relationship, it is important to note that we are living, so, make corrections clear and precise about our behavior and the way in which we are conducting our loving bond.
It is best to a life with the awareness of what we do, than waste it without reflection and keep us all the time with problems and conflicts. Life as a couple is complex but not complicated, assuming that we actively participate in it, he is leaving the role of the victim either become severe judges of ourselves or our partner, we have to change our way of thinking, if we are willing to accept the challenge of watching us to ourselves and the world that surrounds us, under the eyes of understanding. Therefore, 4 agreements applied to the relationship, I will refer to the following: be impeccable with your Word: i.e., listening well before you speak because your words define your reality, in this sense, the words build and destroy realities. The words, says Manuel Ruiz, are magical because of them depends on your relationship, the relationship with yourself and with the world that surrounds you.